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Rooftop Rendezvous

So I went into this kind of restaurant/pub that was kind of weird because it was like a dome, rooftop thing with no actual stairs. You had to walk weirdly on the edges and latch on to someone at the top to pull you up. And there were people I recognized from church there and my family. After reaching the top, I went to a mini bar. I saw a man there and immediately we met eyes, I was instantly attracted. I remember him being do handsome. He handed my drink to me and stepped out to be with me. He decided to abandon his post and walk with me. After we got to a fridge and he asked if I wanted something to which I said yes to another drink. Then when passing the drink, he slid it past the slit in my dress, between my thighs. I remember liking it. The other workers saw and smiled. Then we sat on a couch in the lobby. Some children ran past a doorman. He failed to stop them but couldn't leave his post so I volunteered to go, I brought the children back to their mum and when I returned he said I was good with children. A couple beside us said we were cute and gave us a voucher to their room and pool experience they had booked. We went to their room and changed to go to the poolside. I felt unattractive but he pulled me close enough to feel his hardness behind his swim trunks. The rest was intimate but no sex. Then we left for the pool and I woke up.

So I went into this kind of restaurant/pub that was kind of weird because it was like a dome, rooftop thing with no actual stairs. You had to walk weirdly on the edges and latch on to someone at the top to pull you up. And there were people I recognized from church there and my family. After reaching the top, I went to a mini bar. I saw a man there and immediately we met eyes, I was instantly attracted. I remember him being do handsome. He handed my drink to me and stepped out to be with me. He decided to abandon his post and walk with me. After we got to a fridge and he asked if I wanted something to which I said yes to another drink. Then when passing the drink, he slid it past the slit in my dress, between my thighs. I remember liking it. The other workers saw and smiled. Then we sat on a couch in the lobby. Some children ran past a doorman. He failed to stop them but couldn't leave his post so I volunteered to go, I brought the children back to their mum and when I returned he said I was good with children. A couple beside us said we were cute and gave us a voucher to their room and pool experience they had booked. We went to their room and changed to go to the poolside. I felt unattractive but he pulled me close enough to feel his hardness behind his swim trunks. The rest was intimate but no sex. Then we left for the pool and I woke up.

Dreams often reflect our subconscious thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Let’s explore the various elements in your dream and what they might signify:

  1. The Restaurant/Pub:

    • Dome/Rooftop Setting: Climbing to an unreachable space without stairs can symbolize overcoming obstacles or reaching a new level in your life. The unusual architecture could represent feeling out of your comfort zone, yet the challenge seems to be overcome with the help of others, symbolizing support systems in your life.
    • Recognized People: Seeing people from church and your family suggests that familiar social or spiritual aspects of your life are intermixing with new experiences or ventures.
  2. The Man at the Bar:

    • Deep Attraction: Meeting eyes and feeling an instant connection can reflect a desire for new, exciting relationships or the awakening of a romantic interest in your life.
    • Handsomeness: This attraction might indicate a desire for validation or self-reflection — recognizing qualities you admire and possibly wish to see in yourself.
  3. Interaction and Intimacy:

    • Passing the Drink: The drink being slid through your dress could signify vulnerability, acceptance of intimacy, and enjoying playful yet bold interactions. The other workers' smiles suggest societal acceptance or encouragement of this interaction.
    • Good with Children: Volunteering to help children might show a nurturing side, indicating readiness for responsibilities or valuing it in relationships.
  4. Romantic Connection:

    • Pool Experience: The offer from another couple implies stepping into new, shared experiences within a relationship. Feeling unattractive but having the man show attraction symbolizes facing insecurities with reassurance.
    • Physical Intimacy: The intimate experience without it leading to sex points towards emotional closeness and the building blocks of a deeper connection beyond the physical.
  5. The Pool:

    • Ending at the Pool: Water can be suggestive of emotional states. Preparation to enter the pool might denote emotional readiness or finding peace and comfort in one’s emotions.

Overall, your dream seems to embody a journey of self-discovery and relationships, exploring themes of attraction, support, and intimacy. It may be encouraging you to embrace new opportunities, overcome insecurities, and welcome deeper emotional connections.