this is the 3rd time i dream this. i am on my university campus walking around after class in leisure hours and i run into my ex, angie is her name, as she also goes to my same university. in the dream she stares at me from afar before approaching me until she comes up to me trying to manipulate me into getting back with her or to speak with her, this time in this 3rd dream with her I had her screaming at me aggressively to respond to why i have not been responding to her and how i could have left things with her so easily and without struggle, as if i never loved her at all she says. i see her feeling sad and still loving me and i did care for her as well but i get so angry at the fact that she is re appearing in my life that i grab 2 pencils and put it up to her throat and threaten her to never come near me again that i am sick and tired of dreaming about her and for her energy to leave me the hell alone i can tell she’s actively wanting me in her waking life and that’s fine but i feel like she’s annoying me now. that’s the end of the dream. for context, the dream always ends this way for the past 3 days in a row, i wake up startled and annoyed because i never ever think about her in my waking hours. i don’t speak to her in waking hours because she reminded me of all the bad that i never want to be again, smoking weed, judging others, belittling others, stealing, clubbing, gay sex, threesomes, belittling the Christians, legality issues with her crazy psychotic mother, hearing her place her legality issues onto me about how she is about to be deported from the usa, scamming others, money envy/scarcity mindset, how she always needs a new fucking favor, how you can’t do anything with her or for her without her expecting something in return. i don’t like the person i was when i was with her, i am annoyed she keeps speaking to me in my dreams because reality is i have no interest hanging out with someone like her in my todays world. I am doing so much better and I don’t want her to ruin that. Help me know why i keep dreaming about her. What does my brain want? last time i saw angie was outside of a club, she was very drunk as well as i and she yelled at me saying i was never there for her and that all she wanted was to be with me and that she doesn’t understand what is going on. she practically had a mental break down in front of me. 1 month ago she reached out and sent me a text about “leaving the past to the past and still being friends” in which i ignored. i know her and she may want to coerce me into having sex with her again even if she says just friends. the reality is i am in a relationship with my boyfriend now. after i saw her outside of the club it was a serious encounter i was picked up by my boyfriend and taken into his car while me and her were mid conversation and she screamed “go to hell” while storming out crying. I was struggling to let him let go of me to speak more. But me and her got no where while speaking for an hour, it was just her crying and blaming me for everything and not listening to anything I had to say.
Dreams can often be reflections of our subconscious thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Based on the details you provided, it seems that your dream about your ex, Angie, represents unresolved emotions and lingering negative energy from your past relationship with her.
The repetition of this dream may suggest that there are still unresolved issues or emotions that need to be addressed within yourself. Perhaps there are feelings of guilt or regret for how things ended, or a lingering sense of anger and frustration towards Angie. The dream also hints at your frustration with her attempts to reach out to you, despite your disinterest in maintaining contact.
The aggression and threat of violence in the dream could symbolize your subconscious desire to protect yourself and maintain your boundaries. It may also reflect your frustration with her continual presence in your dreams, as it interferes with the progress and happiness you have found in your current relationship.
Overall, this dream suggests that your brain wants closure and resolution regarding your past relationship with Angie. It may be helpful for you to reflect on your feelings and experiences from that time, and work on finding closure within yourself. It could be beneficial to engage in self-reflection, journaling, or even talk to a therapist to further explore and process these emotions.
Additionally, it might be important to continue reinforcing your boundaries in your waking life by not responding to her attempts to contact you, as it seems that having her back in your life would not be healthy for you at this point.
Remember, dream interpretations are subjective and only you can truly understand the deeper meaning behind your dream. Trust your intuition as you reflect on the symbols, emotions, and experiences presented in your dream.